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Guided Play Workshops



Mistress Schari is expanding her services to include private coaching and consultation for couples and individuals. Mistress Schari has a diverse experience as a life-coach both in and out of the BDSM community. So many friends have come to her for advice on both the BDSM and Swinger communities that she now is offering this same expertise to anyone who feels they would benefit from it. Please call or message Mistress Schari to inquire further.

Fees for private services range from $25 an hour to $350 an hour depending upon the services requested.

Mistress Schari is based out of Northwest New Jersey, but travels throughout NJ, eastern PA and surrounding areas.

Private Couples Consultation

Private Couples Coaching is available with Mistress Schari by appointment. During coaching Mistress Schari will help to create open dialogue between you and your partner to make sure that you are both on the same page. She can also teach you both technique, protocols and how to help each of you grow further into your roles. Depending on your needs this coaching can be done on-site at Lady's Wicked Playground in the Lehigh Valley area in PA or at another agreed upon location.

So You Want to Swing?

This is Mistress Schari's MOST POPULAR form of consultation. Many couples take an interest in swinging but do not know how to begin or to navigate the often tricky waters associated with swinging. M. Schari can help you with setting up guidelines for you and your partner that will evolve as needed, she will also help you to recognize and avoid the common pitfalls that often arise with swinging. M. Schari has over 12 years of personal experience and when necessary her husband is also available to be part of the consultation to better assist you both with your goals.

Pro Domme/ Pro Sub Sessions

Pro Domme Service are available for both individuals and couples. Mistress Schari subscribes to the more sensual side of BDSM and requires a consultation before any services are booked. She can teach individuals how to embrace their submissive roles as well as help other dominants perfect their own strengths and confidence. For properly vetted individuals, Pro-Sub Services are available, please inquire directly. Should Mistress Schari be unable to fulfill your request or educational needs and desires, she is perfectly happy and able to refer you to one of her colleagues.

Couples Parties

All workshops, group classes, sex toy purchasing parties, and even consultations can be organized and arranged as a group dynamic. Host with your friends, book clubs, and communities of all kinds. These parties can be customized to suit your needs whether they be educational, social or just for a dam good time!

Sex Toy Parties

Mistress Schari continues to work for the world's largest in-home party company specializing in relationship-enhancing products, as she has for the last 10 years. These parties are fantastic educational and social gatherings for adult women and couples. Hostesses can earn FREE products for hosting a Girls Night In, Bachelorette Party, Single Again Party or any other theme you can think of!

Private Lifestyle Coaching

Sometimes as we explore new communities and desires it can be very confronting. Mistress Schari has been involved in a life-coach capacity for almost 25 years. Her training as a coach in both the personal and workplace environments make her uniquely qualified to coach both in and out of the lifestyle communities.

What Our Clients Are Saying

We can't thank you enough for your time and patience in helping us navigate through this very new world. Your knowledge and  non-judgemental attitude coupled with your sense of humor put us immediately at ease, thank you.

Melissa K. - Hopatcong, NJ

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