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Mistress Schari Has a Private Session Studio in Morris County.

Please contact me for tributes, and check out the Brand New Collection of Products.

*Purchase an App-Controlled Toy for a more personalized experience.

As always, in-person appointments will be considered in Morris County at MY discretion.

Mistress Schari is expanding her services to include private coaching and consultation for couples and individuals. Mistress Schari has a diverse experience as a life-coach both in and out of the BDSM community. Many of her friends have come to her for advice in both the BDSM and Swinger communities. She now is offering this same expertise to anyone who feels they would benefit from it.

Please call or message Mistress Schari to inquire further.

Please contact Mistress Schari for tributes.

Mistress Schari is based out of Northwest New Jersey, but travels throughout NJ, eastern PA and surrounding areas.

Private Couples Consultation

Private Couples Coaching is available with Mistress Schari by appointment. During coaching Mistress Schari will help to create open dialogue between you and your partner to make sure that you are both on the same page. She can also teach you both technique, protocols, and how to help each of you grow further into your roles. Depending on your needs this coaching can be done in your own home*,  M. Schari's private session room in Morris County, NJ, , or another agreed upon location*.

*Travel fees may apply.

So You Want to Swing?

This is Mistress Schari's MOST POPULAR couples consultation. Many couples take an interest in swinging but do not know how to begin or how to navigate the often tricky waters associated with swinging. M. Schari can help you with setting up guidelines for you and your partner designed to evolve as needed. She can also help you to recognize and avoid the common pitfalls that often arise with swinging. M. Schari has over 16 years of personal experience to better assist you both with your goals.

Pro-Domme Sessions

Pro-Domme Sessions are available for both individuals and couples. Mistress Schari has been a Professional Dominatrix for over 8 years and subscribes to the more sensual and sadistic sides of BDSM. She requires a consultation before a session. She can teach individuals how to embrace their submissive roles as well as help other dominants perfect their own strengths and confidence. For properly vetted individuals. References may be requested and can also be provided.

Couples Parties

All workshops, group classes, sex toy purchasing parties, and even consultations can be organized and arranged as a group dynamic. She can even travel to you! Host with your friends, book clubs, and communities of all kinds. These parties can be customized to suit your needs whether they be educational, social or just for a dam good time! Check out the NEW Dirty Dinner Party exclusive to her. The Dinner can now include a delectable customized menu prepared by our own kinky chef, for an amazing total experience.

Sex Toy Parties

Mistress Schari continues to work for the world's largest in-home party company specializing in relationship-enhancing products, as she has for the last 18 years. These parties are fantastic educational and social gatherings for adult women and couples. Hostesses can earn FREE products for hosting a Girls Night In, Bachelorette Party, Single Again Party, Anniversary, or any other theme you can think of! You can even host your party at Mistress Schari's home in Morris County, NJ for added discretion and convenience. View the products at

Private Lifestyle Coaching

Sometimes as we explore new communities and desires it can be very confronting. Mistress Schari has been involved in a life-coach capacity for almost 30+ years. Her training as a coach in both the personal and workplace environments make her uniquely qualified to coach both in and out of the lifestyle communities.

Training was received through Landmark Education beginning in 1988 through the present.

What Our Clients Are Saying

We can't thank you enough for your time and patience in helping us navigate through this very new world. Your knowledge and non-judgemental attitude coupled with your sense of humor put us immediately at ease, thank you.

Melissa K. - Hopatcong, NJ

You are the most wonderful woman, we cannot wait till our Thursday date nights every week now. You've changed our outlook and my therapist would like to meet you!

Mike & Brenda - South Jersey

Thank you so much for your class on Friday. I cannot believe how much our relationship has changed from your 2 hour class.....This past weekend was the first time I've become that primal and aggressive. A very long time to become grounded. We found so much value in the class. If the couple that missed it don't want a refund my partner and I will take their

Pam & Dan - Bridgewater, NJ

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