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Links to a variety of PODCASTS that we have been featured on are below:

Mistress Schari

973-795-2209

[email protected]

MistresSchari on Fetlife

@Mistress_Schari on Twitter

@Highprotocol_Mistress on Instagram

I will be taking Phone/Text Sessions along with in-person sessions during this health crisis.

Video sessions may also be available, but not always. Please contact me for rates, and check out the new 2020 Quarantine Collection of products. *Purchase an App-Controlled Toy for a more personalized phone session & enjoy a special discount.

In-Person appointments will be considered in my Middlesex County location at MY discretion.

Mistress Schari's Private Session Room

is now open in Middlesex County, NJ.

Session Application Available Here.


Mistress Schari has been in the lifestyle (both BDSM & Swing Communities) as a player and as an educator for the last 20+ years. Schari is also a Sensuality Consultant with the largest in-home romance party company in North America for the last 14 years. Mistress Schari has been trained to lead her workshops from several field experts. Her training as a life coach and public speaker with Landmark Education since 1988 combined with her experience as a professional Domme, Sub and party specialist gives Schari unique lifestyle insights. They have enabled her to provide ALL genders and sexual orientations with a safe and comfortable environment in which to build their confidence and learn new techniques to expand and enhance their relationships.


Mistress Schari is based out of Northwest New Jersey, but travels throughout NJ, eastern PA, southern NY and CT, and surrounding areas. She also regularly attends conventions and events at several locations in the Tri-State Area.

catnip_boi

973-795-2209

[email protected]

catnip_boi on Fetlife





Catnip_boi is submissive and boi to Mistress Schari out of Morris County, NJ. They recently relocated back to New Jersey from Philadelphia to work with children, youth and their families in the mental health field as a care manager. Catnip_boi has been in the BDSM/Kink community for the last 3 years after their therapist suggested they become involved. True to Catnip’s personality they became immersed completely in the community going to events and classes to gain knowledge and experience. They accompany and assist Mistress Schari in her various workshops, classes and local munches. Catnip manages the majority of their Mistress' social media and monitors online class participation. As a transmasculine non-binary queer, Catnip strives to assist communities in becoming more inclusive and competent around LGBTQ+ topics. They also have run various workshops throughout the years at different vanilla events on the subject. Catnip is a service-oriented switch who will professionally top for select candidates, please inquire within if this interests you. Catnip would like to thank their beautiful Mistress for helping them become the best boi they could be and supporting them in all their endeavors. Catnip uses they/them or he/him pronouns.


Mistress Schari is based out of Northwest New Jersey, but travels throughout NJ, eastern PA, southern NY and CT, and surrounding areas. She also regularly attends conventions and events at several locations in the Tri-State Area.



Hear Mistress Schari on the Following Podcasts

LATEST PODCAST:

"Interesting Sex Podcast"

https://open.spotify.com/episode/7xht4V5WQuwDtAjVews4Ix?si=QI7jj-xXTzOtZilAvyMCxQ

"Questionable Personalities"

The Interview part 1&2

https://youtu.be/18akN03SCPQ

https://youtu.be/jKw5Htu5Fbc

Viewer Mail part 1&2

https://youtu.be/QPhHO74s6Ek

https://youtu.be/2B3nvnppYRI

QP Episode 41 Mistress Schari, Dominatrix and BDSM Educator. Domme work during the quarantine.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5x-BCyiAYZQ&feature=youtu.be

QP Episode 42. Mistress Schari, Dominatrix and BDSM Educator. Domme work during the quarantine.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBN7vSg7r7o&feature=youtu.be


"Off the Cuffs"

https://twitter.com/ocpkink/status/1240386900118118402?s=21&fbclid=IwAR2Do6nCLIYG0nMh5kW99ZO81jFTd0SducVCI0w-sM7yi12ntudSZnMRjFI

There is something magical and peaceful​l when you finally satisfy one of your fantasies or cross an item off your bucket list!

I recently had such an opportunity when my unbelievable submissive arranged a boudoir photo shoot for me. I've always wanted to have one. I never dreamed it would be as much fun as it was. I am the luckiest woman to have such a dedicated and wonderful submissive to have set this up for me. Of the 200+ photos that were taken, my favorites are in a book that can be seen in my private session room. When you schedule a private session with me, I will gladly let you view the book.... if you're good ;) !             - Mistress Schari