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Mistress Schari is based out of Northwest New Jersey, but travels throughout NJ, eastern PA, southern NY and CT, and surrounding areas. She also regularly attends conventions and events at several locations in the Tri-State Area.

Catnip_boi is submissive and boi to Mistress Schari out of Morris County, NJ. They recently relocated back to New Jersey from Philadelphia to work with children, youth and their families in the mental health field as a care manager. Catnip_boi has been in the BDSM/Kink community for the last 3 years after their therapist suggested they become involved. True to Catnip’s personality they became immersed completely in the community going to events and classes to gain knowledge and experience. They accompany and assist Mistress Schari in her various workshops, classes and local munches. Catnip manages the majority of their Mistress' social media and monitors online class participation. As a transmasculine non-binary queer, Catnip strives to assist communities in becoming more inclusive and competent around LGBTQ+ topics. They also have run various workshops throughout the years at different vanilla events on the subject. Catnip is a service-oriented switch who will professionally top for select candidates, please inquire within if this interests you. Catnip would like to thank their beautiful Mistress for helping them become the best boi they could be and supporting them in all their endeavors. Catnip uses they/them or he/him pronouns.

Mistress Schari is based out of Northwest New Jersey, but travels throughout NJ, eastern PA, southern NY and CT, and surrounding areas. She also regularly attends conventions and events at several locations in the Tri-State Area.