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About Me

Kink Educator and Professional Dominatrix

Lifestyle Coach

Mistress Schari

973-795-2209

[email protected]

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Mistress Schari's Private Session Rooms

are now open in Morris and Middlesex Counties

in New Jersey


Mistress Schari has been in the lifestyle (both BDSM & Swing Communities) as a player and as an educator for the last 20+ years. Schari is also a Sensuality Consultant with the largest in-home romance party company in North America for the last 14 years. Mistress Schari has been trained to lead her workshops from several field experts. Her training as a life coach and public speaker with Landmark Education since 1988 combined with her experience as a professional Domme, Sub and party specialist gives Schari unique lifestyle insights. They have enabled her to provide ALL genders and sexual orientations with a safe and comfortable environment in which to build their confidence and learn new techniques to expand and enhance their relationships.


Mistress Schari is based out of Northwest New Jersey, but travels throughout NJ, eastern PA, southern NY and CT, and surrounding areas. She also regularly attends conventions and events at several locations in the Tri-State Area.

There is something magical and peaceful when you finally satisfy one of your fantasies or cross an item off your bucket list! I recently had such an opportunity when my unbelievable submissive arranged a boudoir photo shoot for me. I've always wanted to have one. I never dreamed it would be as much fun as it was. And I am the luckiest woman to have such a dedicated and wonderful submissive to have set this up for me. Of the 200+ photos that were taken, my favorites are in a book that can be seen in my private session room. When you schedule a private session with me, I will gladly let you view the book.... if you're good ;)!


There is something magical and peaceful​l when you finally satisfy one of your fantasies or cross an item off your bucket list!

I recently had such an opportunity when my unbelievable submissive arranged a boudoir photo shoot for me. I've always wanted to have one. I never dreamed it would be as much fun as it was. I am the luckiest woman to have such a dedicated and wonderful submissive to have set this up for me. Of the 200+ photos that were taken, my favorites are in a book that can be seen in my private session room. When you schedule a private session with me, I will gladly let you view the book.... if you're good ;) !             - Mistress Schari