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Guided Play Workshops


Guided Play Workshops

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Cost: $60.00 per couple

Dress Code: Casual & Comfortable

On-Site in the Lehigh Valley, PA area: address given upon registration

So you have read the book or seen the movie... now what? Mistress Schari will teach you how to keep 50 Shades in your bedroom and out of the ER!!

Our Kink Class for Couples is your perfect opportunity to do something as a couple to spice up your love life and have fun in the process. Our couples workshop is designed for those of you who wish to take it to the next level through safe, sane and consensual play.

Taught by both trained professionals and experienced players within the BDSM community, this class covers basic BDSM etiquette, language, technique, and tools. You will have the opportunity to learn about BDSM play and practices through a tastefully demonstrated presentation and interactive experience comfortable for all levels.

Our Kink Class for Couples is available on-site at a BDSM club in Lehigh Valley, PA; or, you can schedule your own couples party where we bring the presentation to you and your guests for a truly unique experience ( a minimum of 8 couples required for off-site locations).


Cost: $75.00 per couple

Dress Code: Casual or Fetish, nudity is permitted

On-Site in the Lehigh Valley, PA area: address given upon registration

One of us is Vanilla and the other is Kinky... HELP!?!?!?!

If this describes your dynamic, this is the workshop for you!

Our Sensual Sado-Masochism Workshop is an in-depth guided play workshop designed to help each partner fulfill their partners' needs. Through this workshop we will help each of you find your comfort level as you begin your journey to provide the satisfaction each partner craves.

Through this workshop you will understand the significance of touch coupled with light sensual bondage. You will learn how to use dialogue to tease. You will experience how both mental and physical sadism can increase desire and intensity.

Our Sensual Sado-Masochism Workshop is unique in that instructors actually guide you through a play experience. Your comfort level is paramount to us and all couples are welcome to interact at their own level. For some, this may mean partial or full nudity and may result in uninhibited expression. We recommend this workshop especially for newer couples beginning their lifestyle journey. However, seasoned couples who enjoy exhibitionism or are just beginning to experiment with it will benefit greatly as well. It is also an excellent alternative to a weekend play party that may not fit your schedule or comfort level... just yet.

***Next Workshop is March 24 @6pm at a special price see the calendar page for details***


Cost: $30.00 per person (highly recommended for subs)

Dress Code: Casual or Fetish, nudity is permitted

On-Site in the Lehigh Valley, PA area: address given upon registration

The Pleasure of Protocol Workshop is a one hour intensive workshop that will be offered prior to play parties. This is ideal for owned and un-owned submissives alike to learn basic protocol, etiquette, and manners typical within the lifestyle. Such protocols may include but are not limited too; proper greetings, various submissive positions and stances, and how to serve, etc.

Dominant partners are welcome to include suggestions in advance for their submissive to learn during the workshop. Usually an interactive challenge for the submissives will follow during the evening play party.  The game will allow each submissive to show off their newly acquired skills so that they may win prizes and bragging rights for their Dom. An un-owned submissive may be paired with a surrogate Dom for the purpose of the challenge only.


Cost: $125.00 per person

Dress Code: casual & comfortable


The Fellatio Fundamentals Workshop developed by women for women is designed to empower you. Until very recently the only way for a woman to obtain knowledge about these things was through male-targeted pornography. With our workshop you will learn to impress your partner with new techniques in both manual and oral stimulation by receiving "hands-on" instruction using a life-like prop. Our workshop is not about "servicing" someone, but rather how to build intimacy and confidence through a safe, shared and sensual experience. And at least when he asks where you learned it,

you'll have a receipt as proof!

The Fellatio Fundamentals Workshop  is taught on-site in Lehigh Valley, PA; or, Mistress Schari will come to your location and hold the workshop for you with a minimum of 6 participants. This workshop can also be designed as a Cock Worship Workshop for more intense and lifestyle oriented instruction.


Cost: tba

Dress Code: Fetish, nudity is permitted

Available at YOUR location


Cost: Free

Dress Code: Casual & Comfortable

We are looking for Hosts who are interested.

Mischief Games will be a collection of icebreaker party games that we will organize and moderate during play parties on-site at your location. These games are designed to provide interaction between party attendees in a fun and sometimes challenging way. Prizes will be provided. Bragging rights will be awarded.  And... of course, member sponsorship will always be welcome (contact us for details). These games will more than likely be free unless they are attached to a workshop or have a very special prize or fundraising designation. Mischief Games will vary for Dominants and submissives, may be theme-related, and will rotate often.

Round Table Discussions are organized and led by our workshop team. They can be topic specific or we can field a range of topics suggested from the participant. These Round Table Discussions work best if hosted off-site by a person or couple within the lifestyle in their home. We are always looking for volunteers. These discussions help bring about greater awareness in a very casual and comfortable environment. They will also help us in the development of additional workshops. Think of them like a private munch (contact us for details).

We are currently looking for someone to host two different Round Table Discussions:

1. A movie night featuring the movie 9 1/2 Weeks (which we will provide on blu-ray) for a provocative discussion to follow.

2. BDSM and The Me-Too Movement and how they coexist.

contact us for details at [email protected]

Please call us for more information

Mistress Schari 973-795-2209

[email protected]

Mischief Matters is committed to safe, sane and consensual instruction for all our participants.

Please send any topic suggestions to [email protected]

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